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Premature ejaculation

Premature ejaculation

Tips & tricks to prevent premature ejaculation

We’re going to assume that when you go to bed, you’re not having a contest to see who reaches orgasm first. But the fact of the matter is that men usually reach their climax more quickly than their female partners. This makes premature ejaculation a major problem for many. Men are also not so keen on “quickies” – good sex requires playful anticipation.

So a few techniques to prolong lovemaking definitely can’t hurt – which doesn't mean a quickie can't be fun every once in a while. But who wouldn't want to enjoy extra pleasure...

Stop and go
This is definitely one of the simplest delay tactics, and it can be varied as you see fit. As the man becomes more excited and realizes he won’t be able to hold back much longer, he should withdraw his penis and switch to a less stimulating position. You can also reduce speed, for example by selecting a position where both partners are sitting down. Lying on your side while facing each other is also ideal. Should that still be insufficient to delay ejaculation, pull the penis out of the vagina and take a longer break – the perfect opportunity to please your partner orally or with your fingers.

Intensity through delay
Asia is light years ahead of us in terms of sexual research. For example the “golden spot” is a commonly known term in Asia while people in the western world tend to respond with a blank look and shrug their shoulders: The golden spot is the area between the scrotum and anus in men – exerting pressure with three curved fingers at the right moment can not only delay his orgasm but also make it more intense. While massaging this spot shortly before orgasm is a good delay tactic, it is also suitable as foreplay or an arousing interlude since the golden spot is a male hot spot that is underestimated around the world.

Karezza
Karezza is a delay tactic that requires good control on the part of the male: Move as little as possible and only thrust until his penis is really hard. Take a break and let things calm down until the penis is almost flaccid again, and then resume thrusting. Repeating this process several times makes the man’s orgasm much more intense while extending his partner’s enjoyment.

If you are up to the challenge…
…you can try the delay tactic that involves pulling the scrotum away from the man’s body for a few seconds at the right moment – just before reaching orgasm. But be careful: Pulling too hard causes pain, while being too gentle has no effect at all. The man should give the woman some sort of signal when he is almost there, otherwise she may miss the crucial moment.

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