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Handjob – the perfect way to lend a hand

Handjob – the perfect way to lend a hand

Are you firmly convinced that jerking a man off is no big deal? You are correct. But we are not talking about making a man ejaculate with a few quick strokes of your hand – that is actually not much of a trick. On the other hand, seducing and truly satisfying a man with skilled, tender hands is an acquired skill.

What am I doing wrong?
Unfortunately surveys show that men are generally not happy with women when it comes to manual stimulation of their family jewels. According to the men, we are much too tentative and gentle, fail to stimulate the head of the penis adequately, or rub furiously as though we were trying to win some kind of contest. But these complaints are easy to address…

The right position
Since manual play should not feel like work or take excessive effort, make sure you get comfortable. The best way is to sit on your partner’s thighs – this leaves both hands free so you can use them simultaneously or switch hands every so often.

A few basic grips
Of course you and your partner will ultimately decide how you will use your hands exactly. But with a few basic grips, even inexperienced women can make their partner happy: Roll the penis lightly between your hands and then stroke up and down with a loose fist; close your hand and intensify the pressure, especially at the head of the penis. Or form a ring with your thumb and index finger, close the fingers of one hand around the base of the penis and glide up and down with the fingers of the other hand.

Bring it to a head
As most women know, the head of the penis or glans is the most sensitive area. This also includes the narrow band that joins the glans to the foreskin as well as the rim of the glans. Use your palm to massage the head of the penis or play with it using your fingertips. But be careful: When they get close to orgasm, the head of the penis is incredibly sensitive in some men so they cannot stand being touched.

The right rhythm?
No matter what method you ultimately choose to please your partner – maintain an even rhythm if possible, don't be afraid to get a good grip and avoid sudden changes. Watch your partner’s reactions – is he enjoying your efforts? Or does he appear bored or even reluctant? If he is very aroused, slow down and let him wait a little – this will make him even hotter. Speed up and tighten your grip as he gets closer to orgasm, and then stop once he reaches his finale.
Ideally you should watch your partner masturbate or let him show you what to do. This is the quickest way to find out what he likes.

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